Question 1

Who is Ahavah for?

Accepted Answer

Messianic, Hebrew Roots, and Torah-observant believers seeking a spouse. Members across the diaspora can meet across borders with verified identity and shared-belief filters. Polygyny is a recognised path, so the platform is not for never-married singles only.

Question 2

Is Ahavah a dating app?

Accepted Answer

Ahavah is matchmaking built for marriage, not casual dating. The culture is courtship-minded, and the tools are made to help you find a spouse.

Question 3

Is it free?

Accepted Answer

Ahavah is free to join. The core experience is free; Premium and per-action tokens are optional.

Question 4

Will it work on my phone?

Accepted Answer

Ahavah is a Progressive Web App. Add to Home Screen on iOS and Android. There is no separate app store binary at launch.

Question 5

Is Ahavah available now?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Ahavah is live. Sign up and create your profile in minutes.

Question 6

What is the marriage checklist?

Accepted Answer

A free, guided activity at ahavah.app/marriage-checklist. Work through the biblical obligations Scripture sets for a husband and a wife, rate what matters most to you, add your own nice-to-haves and challenges, and email a personal summary to you and your spouse. Answers are never stored.

Question 7

How do I sign in? I did not make a password.

Accepted Answer

Ahavah has no passwords. You sign in with a one-time code we email you. Type your email address, tap Send code, then open your email and look for a message from Ahavah. It has a 6-number code. Type those 6 numbers into the app and you are in.

Question 8

What is the one-time code?

Accepted Answer

It is a set of 6 numbers, like 034219, that we send to your email each time you sign in. It is not a password to remember. It is only for that one sign-in, and it stops working after you use it.

Question 9

I did not get the code email.

Accepted Answer

Give it a minute, then check your spam or junk folder (search for Ahavah). Make sure you typed your email correctly. Still nothing? Tap Resend code and we will send a fresh one.

Question 10

The code did not work.

Accepted Answer

Three common reasons: the code is more than 10 minutes old (ask for a new one), you asked for a second code and typed the old one (always use the newest email), or a number was mistyped. Get a new code and type it slowly.

Question 11

How long does the code last?

Accepted Answer

10 minutes. After that it stops working and you just ask for a new one. You can ask for a new code about 30 seconds after the last one.

Question 12

What beliefs is Ahavah built around?

Accepted Answer

Ahavah serves Messianic, Hebrew Roots, and Torah-observant believers. Shared-belief filters let you match on observance and conviction.

Question 13

Does Ahavah recognise plural marriage?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Polygyny is a recognised path on the platform, so it is not for never-married singles only. Members can be open about what they are seeking.

Question 14

Is this for casual dating?

Accepted Answer

No. Ahavah is for people seeking marriage. If you are looking for something casual, this is not the platform.

Question 15

What is verification?

Accepted Answer

Three tiers (Bronze, Silver, Gold) of identity checks. Bronze is required to start matching. Higher tiers unlock more trust signals to other members.

Question 16

How is my data handled?

Accepted Answer

Verification documents are processed by Stripe Identity; we only receive a verified or not-verified result. Profile data is used only to match you. See /privacy for the full policy.

Question 17

How do you keep the community safe?

Accepted Answer

Identity verification, clear community guidelines, and built-in report and block tools. We act on every report.

Question 18

Can I report or block someone?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Use the menu on any profile or chat to report or block, or email support@ahavah.app.

Question 19

Can I use an AI-generated or illustrated photo?

Accepted Answer

No. Your photos must show the real you. Illustrated or AI-generated images can appear alongside real photos, but they can never be your only photo, and your main photo must clearly show your face. Profiles without a real photo cannot get verified and may have photos removed.

Question 20

Can I match with someone in another country?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Ahavah is built for the diaspora, so cross-border matching is the norm.

Question 21

How many languages are supported?

Accepted Answer

Over 100. Language differences should not block a connection.

Question 22

Do I have to relocate?

Accepted Answer

That is between you and your match. Ahavah helps you meet; where you build a life is your decision.

Question 23

How do I contact a real person?

Accepted Answer

Email support@ahavah.app. A human reads it.

Questions, answered.

General

Signing in

Beliefs and marriage

Verification and safety

Across borders