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A guided activity for couples

The
Marriage
Checklist.

Read the passages set for a husband and a wife, then add your own nice-to-haves and challenges. Rate what matters most to you, and send a personal summary to you both.

We never store your answers. Your responses live only on this page until you send your summary, and then they are gone. Nothing is saved to our servers.
1
Read the scripture
Section one shows the passages themselves, quoted in full. We add no titles and no interpretation.
2
Make it yours
Rate what matters, set your own frequency, and write your own items for the other two sections.
3
Share your summary
Sign in, add your spouse's email, and send it to you both.

Takes about eight minutes. You can go back at any point.

A free resource from Ahavah. Find a Torah-observant spouse across borders.

What is inside the checklist

The Marriage Checklist is a free, guided activity for Torah-observant couples and singles preparing for marriage. It has three sections: the biblical obligations Scripture sets for a husband and a wife, your own nice-to-haves, and the challenges and obstacles you want to face honestly together. For every item you rate how much it matters to you, choose how often you would practice it, and record where you stand.

Section one quotes each passage verbatim from the KJV, with a link to the full text on YouVersion. The passages are:

Common questions

Is the marriage checklist free?

Yes. The checklist is a free activity from Ahavah. You confirm your email with a one-time code to receive your summary, and no matchmaking profile is required.

Do you store my answers?

No. Your answers live only on the page while you complete it. When you send your summary, we compose the email and discard your responses. Nothing is saved to our servers.

Which Bible passages are included?

Section one covers Genesis 2:18-24, Exodus 21:10-11, Proverbs 5:15-19, 1 Corinthians 7:2-5, Ephesians 5:22-33, Colossians 3:18-19, 1 Peter 3:1-7, Malachi 2:14-16, and Hebrews 13:4, quoted verbatim from the KJV and linked to the full passage on YouVersion.

Can I use it if I am single?

Yes. Complete it for yourself to clarify your own non-negotiables, or send it to someone you are courting. It is a clear way to show you are intentional about marriage.

How does my spouse get the results?

After you finish, you add your spouse's email and the same summary is emailed to you both, so you can read it side by side and talk it through together.

Who made the marriage checklist?

Ahavah, the matchmaking platform for Messianic and Torah-observant believers seeking a spouse across borders.