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For parents, elders and mentors

Help someone you love find a spouse.

Ahavah is matchmaking for Torah-observant believers who hope to marry.

How a family can help

Be a mentorThe single invites you and chooses what you see.
Introduce someoneRecommend Ahavah to a single you know.

What a mentor sees

  • The single’s matches, as the single sees them
  • The conversations the single chooses to share, one at a time, read only

What a mentor never sees

  • Anyone else’s profile
  • Search or Discover
  • Any conversation the single has not shared

The single decides

They invite you, they choose what to share and they can end it at any time.

The other person is always told

When a conversation is shared, the other person sees that a mentor can read it.

How to start

Ask your son or daughter to invite you from Settings.

Introduce a single to Ahavah

We email them once, with your note.

We will email you a 6-digit code first, to confirm it is you.

Questions

Can I see other members’ profiles?

No. A mentor sees only the matches and conversations the single shares.

Can I write in a shared conversation?

No. Shared conversations are read only.

Does the other person know?

Yes. They see that a mentor can read the conversation.

Can the single stop sharing?

Yes, at any time, from Settings.