Community guidelines.
How we expect members to treat each other. Last updated 2026-05-19.
The spirit of it
Ahavah exists so Messianic Torah-observant believers seeking a spouse can meet without the noise of mainstream apps. Behave like someone you'd want to marry.
Be real
One profile per person. Your photos must be you. Don't pose as someone else, don't use photos of someone else, don't lie about basic facts.
Be respectful
Sexual harassment, slurs, hate speech, and threats are zero-tolerance. Differences in observance are not a debating contest. If someone says no, accept it.
No solicitation
Ahavah isn't a marketplace. No promoting external products, services, OnlyFans, crypto, or recruiting into anything outside the platform.
Adults only
18+ only. Don't post photos of minors, don't engage anyone who appears to be under 18, don't share anything sexual involving minors. We report violations to authorities.
How to report
Tap the kebab menu on any profile or chat to report or block. Or email admin@ahavah.app with details. We act on every report; bad-faith reports also count against you.
Enforcement
Outcomes range from a warning to permanent ban. We may take action without warning for severe violations (impersonation, threats, exploitation of minors, hate speech).
Appeals
Disagree with an enforcement action? Email admin@ahavah.app with your account email and a brief explanation. A human will review.
Contact
Anything else: admin@ahavah.app.